Couples Counseling

Maybe this has led to bigger and more frequent fights, or perhaps the distance has grown, and you've started to think about divorce. You may feel frustrated or simply lonely, and perhaps you’re even feeling unwanted and uncared for. Even though you are both smart and successful individuals, you still seem to be stuck. You have likely tried everything you can think of to improve the relationship and now wonder if there's anything left to try. Whatever it is that you’re experiencing, you are beginning to see the impact on every aspect of your life: 

- Pulling away emotionally because sharing your feelings and feeling misunderstood has hurt too much.  

- Wearing yourself thin, doing everything alone when what you really desire is to be a team.  

- Worrying and losing sleep over the future of your marriage.  

- Becoming more irritable as despair and resentment grow.

If this sounds familiar, then you are in the right place.  

Marriage counseling can help.  

It may feel impossible now, but you can save your marriage. You can become emotionally close again and create relationship security. Our marriage counseling services are designed to help you get there.  

Marriage counseling helps you achieve four key outcomes:  

1. Identify the root of the problems you’re experiencing.  

2. Understand how you and your partner relate to each other and the patterns you get stuck in.  

3. Increase your ability to be emotionally vulnerable with one another and communicate more clearly.  

4. Learn the tools that will help resolve your problems, allowing you to feel satisfied and secure in your relationship.  

We will guide you through this process, customizing each step to fit your unique needs and circumstances. Our approach to marriage counseling is rooted in hope: we believe that neither you nor your partner are the “problem,” but rather the cycle or pattern you're in needs addressing.  

In marriage counseling, you'll learn how to express your feelings more clearly and improve your ability to understand and empathize with one another.  

What you will learn in marriage counseling with us involves the principles of Emotionally Focused Therapy, which is the #1 research-validated relationship therapy and the ONLY couple therapy recommended by the American Psychological Association to enhance relationships. In our Emotionally Focused Therapy sessions, we will perform a thorough assessment of your relationship to uncover its specific strengths and areas for growth, discussing what fosters emotionally secure connections. We will deeply explore:  

- The interactional patterns that keep you feeling distant in your marriage.  

- The underlying emotions and longings at the heart of the cycle you’re caught in.  

- How to change your communication for it to be effective and clear.  

- Ways to rebuild trust in the relationship, especially if there's been any form of betrayal.  

- Techniques to enhance sexual satisfaction so you can reconnect intimately.  

- Strategies to build a secure relationship bond in your marriage. 

...and much more!

Loneliness, anxiety, and frustration don’t have to define your marriage. It’s time to feel satisfied and secure again!  

FAQ:  

We are committed to providing a non-judgmental experience, viewing matters through a lens that honors our shared humanity. We are relational beings, inherently wired to connect. What sets us apart is our openness and curiosity; we never presume to be the experts. We welcome everyone, including diverse sexual orientations, relationship statuses, ages, races, disabilities, ethnicities/national origins, gender identities, and spiritual affiliations.